This is a fascinating, well-written account of a fascinating, well-lived life. And one that aims to set a few serious misconceptions straight.
In many ways it’s a pretty typical piece of biography – a chronological story of Simone de Beauvoir, from her austere upbringing , to her intellectual and engaged life as one of the foremost philosophers and writers of twentieth century France, to her old age and eventual death.
I’ve read no other biography of Beauvoir so can’t compare it, but this does feel like a vital piece of work, and that’s because of the simple way that Kirkpatrick elaborates Beauvoir’s philosophy. We see over the decades the questions that preoccupy her as a philosopher. What does it mean to be free, especially when you find yourself surrounded by power relations and circumstances that limit your options? What is it to be a woman, and how can women in particular live freely? What is love, especially between men and women living under patriarchy? How should we understand the process of ageing and its affect on people?
One of the main reasons why Kirkpatrick says she has wrote this biography is to demonstrate that de Beauvoir is a philosopher and creative thinker in her own right; not, as many have claimed during her life and after, someone who simply popularised Satre’s thought. As she says:
“… readers rejected Beauvoir’s ideas because of the way she lived her life: because she loved too many men, the wrong man, the right man in the wrong way (they didn’t know bout the women yet). They accused her of giving too little of herself to too much of herself, to being too feminist or not feminist enough,”
And Kirkpatrick does this well, refuting the many, many criticisms of this impressive thinker. And, given the nature of de Beauvoir’s philosophy, biography is in fact the perfect form to use.
What we see Beauvoir develop over the years is a form of ‘situated’ ethics, that recognises the kind of existential autonomy Satre dreamed of as an ideal perhaps, but one that doesn’t allow for the reality of most people’s lives. What does the freedom to choose the course of one’s life mean for a woman in a harem, she asks; in other words, what is existential freedom, if your situation limits you financially, psychologically, socially, politically? And in fact, over the years we see Satre coming round to her way of thinking, as both of them recognise that freedom for most is an impossible dream given the political realities of patriarchy, colonialism and capitalism, not to mention the limitations imposed by the petty convention governing people’s lives.
That’s why much of her philosophy after The Second Sex was published comes in unconventional forms: works of literature so people grasp the existential choices available to us all; politically engaged essays on salient issues like abortion, women and work, Algerian independence, and so on; and above all memoir and life writing to make the situation of women live and real. You can see her impact in so many places, not just legal reforms in France in support of female liberty, but also in the future work of feminist thinkers and activists, as well the subjects of love, emotion, age, gender, housework and much else besides, all of which might not have been considered material for philosophical,
Alongside her intellectual development, Kirkpatrick also gives an account of the love life of Beauvoir, which is interesting both as an example of a woman making free choices despite the conventions and expectations of her time, and as a refutation of the oft-cited criticism of Beauvoir, that she was besotted with a promiscuous and unfaithful Satre.
What we learn is that they had an agreement early on to make one another their essential loves, but to allow ‘contingent’ relations with others. They both did this freely, though Beauvoir with perhaps more honesty than Satre, who perhaps predictably was as open with his lovers as Beauvoir was with hers. And in fact the relation between the two of them was quickly platonic and intellectual, not sexual. The indication throughout is that neither was exploiting the other; their love was enduring and ‘reciprocal’ – an important feature of love for Beauvoir.
So what we get in this biography, as well as a nicely flowing and always-engaging story, is a powerful assertion of Simone de Beauvoir as a woman living her own choices despite the many circumstances that might limit them, and an intellectual who carved out a distinct way to tackle the key philosophical and political issues for mid to late Twentieth century Europe.